A necklace in honor of mother Although it has some dainty features, this necklace perfectly expressed my feelings about the loss of my mother. It is exactly as featured and seems to be good quality. For most people it would be a 5, but for my own use I had to say 4. I expected a more masculine chain or at least a longer one. It is listed under male gift. I had to change the thin rope chain, it was to small for my build, I need thicker and at least 18". Chain is more feminine in size. But really, it is a very nice gift for anyone who has lost a loved one. It delivered within 72 hours.